Sue's Views Sniffles and Friends Newsletter - February 2011
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Separation Anxiety – Oh no! Where did they go! by Sue Senn Sniffles and Friends Professional Pet Sitting and Dog Walking Service Philadelphia, PA
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I've been hearing from several of our clients this week regarding separation anxiety and it’s been causing much tension and concern in their homes, as well as some complaints from their neighbors (especially if they live in a high-rise apartment/condo building).
We've known lots of dogs who exhibit this behavior - mainly because it's unnatural for a dog (pack animal) to be away from his pack (that would be you) and it makes them very upset and anxious. However, when his "pack" has to go to work, to the store, or anywhere else that he can't join them that's understandably unavoidable and that's where the dog goes into his panic mode.
Sometimes they get destructive, sometimes they get depressed, sometimes they get destructive with their own bodies (biting, licking, picking at themselves), sometimes they bark incessantly.
Of course, the best suggestion I can offer is to discuss these behavior and symptoms with your vet. Different vets have different philosophies about this (and just about anything else) - some recommend crating, some recommend seeing a behaviorist, some recommend medication, some recommend a combination of some or all of the above.
You'd need to discuss each of these options with your vet and decide what you prefer to do after getting the most information and knowing your own dog and his personality.
Several months ago in Sue’s Views I discussed crating. It's not for everybody - one of our dogs is crated; the others are separated behind baby gates.
Some behavior experts recommend getting a second dog (the 2nd dog needs to have a submissive personality to your present dog so he remains the "leader" - otherwise this will cause even more anxiety and social upheaval).
Another option would be to get a very friendly, laid back cat. That way they have a new pack member who is always present with them - who doesn't go to work, shopping, etc. Having a pack member who is always home (another pet) often alleviates the problem because the dog then settles back into pack mentality/life as he knows it and all is well with the world again.
Our schnoodle (Monkey) is a very nervous dog and he's easily calmed/comforted by the presence of his own little cat (Dave) who is a nonthreatening little “paperweight” of a guy, and who has become Monkey's little security blanket (and favorite friend in the world).
It just depends on the dog and how receptive he is to each scenario. It may be an issue of trial and error until you find what does work, and what makes your dog feel more secure and content in your absence.
I personally don't like the idea of anti-anxiety medication, but some of our clients do use anti-anxiety meds for anxiety disorder and it seems to help somewhat. Of course, I would never recommend over-the-counter calming meds and this and any other medication should only be considered and then administered under the supervision of your vet if he/she does recommend trying this option.
Here's an interesting article describing separation anxiety.